Family of Singaporean diver missing in Palau shares grief: 'Let Dad rest peacefully in the ocean he loved'新加坡潜水员在帕劳失踪,家属悲痛欲绝:“愿爸爸在他挚爱的海洋中安息。”
The family of missing Singaporean diver Robert Tan Soon Liang said they have "found some peace" in knowing the ocean is their father's final resting place."He held immense reverence for the ocean and has always expressed that, when his time came, he wished to return to the sea," said the family in a statement shared by 360watersports.smb, the social media...

The family of missing Singaporean diver Robert Tan Soon Liang said they have "found some peace" in knowing the ocean is their father's final resting place.
"He held immense reverence for the ocean and has always expressed that, when his time came, he wished to return to the sea," said the family in a statement shared by 360watersports.smb, the social media page of Scuba Schools International in Singapore, Malaysia and Brunei, on Sept 17.
"Although we wish deeply that he could come home to us, we find comfort in knowing that he now rests in the place he loved so dearly."
Tan, 62, and fellow diver Xiaoxi Wu, a 43-year-old Chinese national, went missing during a dive on Sept 7 in Palau , an island nation north of Indonesia.
The search was called off after five days .
Tan began diving in 1994 and held a Scuba Schools International Instructor Certifier qualification, logging more than 5,100 dives.
Tan's family requested in their statement for the public to refrain from speculating about the incident or spreading unverified information.
According to them, the dive guide had noticed Tan and Wu rapidly descending near the end of the dive, when they were to take a safety stop.
A safety stop is a procedure where a diver pauses at a depth, usually about five metres, before ascending so that the body has more time to eliminate excess nitrogen.
The dive guard attempted to reach them but had to turn back at 40 metres — the maximum recreational depth limit.
Family rules out deep-water recovery
The family said the site where Tan and Wu were last seen lies at depths of 300m to 500m, making survival impossible without specialised equipment.
"Our family has decided not to undertake a deep-water recovery expedition," they said.
"Instead, we have chosen to let Dad rest peacefully in the ocean he loved."
Elaborating on the reasons why, the family added that a recovery expedition would be risky and hazardous and at a depth of 300 to 500 metres, "chances of recovering a body are close to zero".
They said they are also reassured by diving physiology and medicine to know that Tan "would not have suffered at the end".
He would have likely experienced narcosis, which acts as an anaesthetic, below 30 to 40 metres, before losing consciousness "within seconds" when oxygen ran out.
According to Tan's Facebook profile, he had a 34-year career in the Republic of Singapore Air Force as a helicopter pilot and flight instructor.
A memorial service for Tan will be held at Youngberg Terrace from Sept 25 to 27.
"All are welcome to join us as we remember and celebrate Dad's life, his passions, his flying career, his love for the ocean, and the many lives he touched," the family said.
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失踪的新加坡潜水员陈顺良的家人表示,得知父亲最终安息于大海,他们“感到些许慰藉”。
“他对海洋怀有极大的敬畏之心,并一直表示,当他生命走到尽头时,他希望回到大海,”他的家人在9月17日通过新加坡、马来西亚和文莱的国际潜水学校社交媒体页面360watersports.smb分享的一份声明中说道。
“虽然我们非常希望他能回家和我们在一起,但我们感到欣慰的是,他现在安息在他深爱的地方。”
62岁的谭和43岁的中国籍潜水员吴晓曦于9月7日在印度尼西亚北部岛国帕劳潜水时失踪。
搜寻行动在五天后结束。
Tan 于 1994 年开始潜水,并持有国际潜水学校教练认证资格,累计潜水超过 5100 次。
谭的家人在声明中请求公众不要对该事件进行猜测或传播未经证实的信息。
据他们说,潜水向导注意到谭和吴在潜水即将结束时迅速下潜,当时他们本应进行安全停留。
安全停留是指潜水员在上升之前,在水下约五米深处稍作停留,以便身体有更多时间排出多余的氮气。
潜水员试图接近他们,但不得不在 40 米处返回——这是休闲潜水的最大深度限制。
家人排除深水救援的可能性
家属表示,谭和吴最后一次被人看到的地方位于水下 300 米至 500 米处,没有专业设备根本无法生存。
“我们家决定不进行深海打捞探险,”他们说。
“我们选择让爸爸在他挚爱的大海中安息。”
该家庭进一步解释说,搜寻探险队将面临风险和危险,而且在 300 至 500 米的深度,“找到遗体的机会几乎为零”。
他们表示,潜水生理学和医学也让他们放心,知道谭“最终不会遭受痛苦”。
他很可能在水下 30 到 40 米处经历了麻醉(相当于麻醉剂),然后在氧气耗尽后“几秒钟内”失去意识。
根据 Tan 的 Facebook 个人资料显示,他曾在新加坡空军服役 34 年,担任直升机飞行员和飞行教官。
谭的追悼会将于9月25日至27日在杨伯格露台举行。
“欢迎大家与我们一起缅怀和庆祝父亲的一生、他的爱好、他的飞行生涯、他对海洋的热爱,以及他曾影响过的众多生命,”家人说。
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