'I don't follow anyone's timeline': Singaporean 2-time Olympian Saiyidah Aisyah welcomes first child at 38“我不会按照任何人的时间表来安排”:新加坡两届奥运会选手赛伊达·艾莎38岁喜得贵子
Singaporean rower and two-time Olympian Saiyidah Aisyah Rafaee has welcomed her first child in Boston, marking a new chapter in her life at 38.Aisyah gave birth to her son, Asher Sahil Zuckerman, at Brigham and Women’s Hospital on August 29, Berita Harian (BH) reported on Friday (Sept 25).The Olympian said she approached childbirth with the same resilience and discipline she...
Singaporean rower and two-time Olympian Saiyidah Aisyah Rafaee has welcomed her first child in Boston, marking a new chapter in her life at 38.
Aisyah gave birth to her son, Asher Sahil Zuckerman, at Brigham and Women’s Hospital on August 29, Berita Harian (BH) reported on Friday (Sept 25).
The Olympian said she approached childbirth with the same resilience and discipline she used in preparing for major races.
She told BH that she prepared by learning what to expect, writing down her fears, practising breathing techniques and finding different ways to manage pain.
"Just like a race, much of the hard work happens before the big day arrives," she said.
Aisyah moved to Boston in 2019 and married American Ross Zuckerman later that year.
Aisyah, who is the first Singaporean rower to qualify for the Olympics, competed at the Rio 2016 and Paris 2024 Olympics . She said her experience as an athlete has also helped her with navigating the early challenges of motherhood thus far.
Now a coach and sports performance specialist, she helps athletes with rowing, running, strength and conditioning, as well as prenatal and postpartum training.
'I don't have to give up being an athlete'
"Stepping into motherhood is challenging," Aisyah told BH, adding that she had learnt as an athlete to "lean into" challenges.
She said the support of her family and community in Boston has also helped her adjust to life as a new mother.
Her mother flew from Singapore to be with her during the first week after she gave birth, followed by her in-laws, reported BH.
Aisyah said she was also excited to share Malay culture and traditions with her son through food, festive celebrations and the Singaporean Malay community in Boston.
Despite becoming a mother, she said she has no plans to give up her identity as an athlete and rower.
"Taking on a new identity as a mother does not mean I have to give up my identity as an athlete or rower. I just need to learn to adapt," she told BH, noting that training sessions may be shorter and she may not be able to travel as frequently for training and competitions.
Aisyah also encouraged young Singaporean women not to feel constrained by other people's timelines, saying there is no expiry date for life's major milestones.
"I became an Olympic athlete at 28, returned to the Olympics at 36, and became a mother at 38."
AsiaOne has reached out to Aisyah for more information.
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新加坡赛艇运动员、两届奥运会选手赛义达·艾莎·拉法伊在波士顿迎来了她的第一个孩子,这标志着她38岁时人生的新篇章。
据《每日新闻报》(Berita Harian,简称BH)周五(9月25日)报道,艾莎于8月29日在布里格姆妇女医院生下了儿子阿舍尔·萨希尔·祖克曼。
这位奥运选手表示,她以备战重大比赛时同样的韧性和自律精神来面对分娩。
她告诉BH,她通过了解会发生什么、写下自己的恐惧、练习呼吸技巧以及寻找不同的方法来控制疼痛来做好准备。
“就像比赛一样,大部分艰苦的工作都在比赛日到来之前完成,”她说。
艾莎于 2019 年搬到波士顿,同年晚些时候与美国人罗斯·祖克曼结婚。
艾莎是首位获得奥运会参赛资格的新加坡赛艇运动员,她曾参加过2016年里约奥运会和2024年巴黎奥运会。她说,作为运动员的经历也帮助她应对了迄今为止初为人母所面临的挑战。
现在,她是一名教练和运动表现专家,帮助运动员进行划船、跑步、力量和体能训练,以及产前和产后训练。
“我不需要放弃运动员的身份。”
“成为母亲是一项挑战,”艾莎告诉BH,并补充说,作为一名运动员,她学会了“迎难而上”。
她说,波士顿的家人和社区的支持也帮助她适应了新手妈妈的生活。
据BH报道,她的母亲在她分娩后的第一周从新加坡飞来陪伴她,随后她的公婆也赶来。
艾莎表示,她也很兴奋能通过美食、节日庆典以及波士顿的新加坡马来社区,与儿子分享马来文化和传统。
尽管已经为人母,但她表示没有放弃运动员和赛艇运动员身份的打算。
“成为母亲并不意味着我必须放弃运动员或赛艇运动员的身份。我只需要学会适应,”她告诉BH,并指出训练时间可能会缩短,她也可能无法像以前那样频繁地外出训练和比赛。
艾莎还鼓励新加坡年轻女性不要受到他人时间表的限制,她说人生中的重要里程碑没有截止日期。
“我28岁成为奥运选手,36岁重返奥运赛场,38岁成为母亲。”
AsiaOne已联系Aisyah以获取更多信息。
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