Singapore wife drops 100-page PDF accusing husband of cheating and lying: Here's the TL;DR

The document claimed that the man met a woman from Taiwan and paid for her trip to KL during his marriage.

A 100-page PDF packed with screenshots, photos and chat messages accusing a Singapore husband of cheating before and after his marriage has been making the rounds online.

Among the claims: the man allegedly had a one-night stand before his wedding, later pursued another woman he met in Taiwan while married, and eventually told his wife he wanted an annulment partly because she had repeatedly rejected his attempts to have sex.

The document appears to have been put together by the wife, who states in a disclaimer that it is based on what she found, what she was told and "the receipts" she managed to collect.

TikTok posts sharing the PDF appear to have since been removed, but interest continued after the saga was reposted on the SgTea subreddit.

An Instagram account also shared a summary of the document on Oct 5 in a two-part post which quickly went viral.

June 28, 2025: Alleged one-night stand before marriage

According to the PDF, a woman later contacted the wife claiming she had slept with the man at a hotel on June 28, 2025.

She said he had introduced himself as "Ben" and that they had communicated through Instagram.

The PDF contains screenshots which the wife presented as evidence that the man had been using the alias.

This alleged encounter took place about nine months before the couple's wedding.

March 21, 2026: Couple gets married

The couple married on March 21.

"The day of my wedding, we proceeded with the wedding as completely normal, while I had no idea that my husband had already been sleeping with other girls," the wife wrote in the PDF.

A photo shows the couple in wedding attire in front of the Chinese double happiness character (囍).

April 1: Wife learns of earlier cheating claims

On the first day of their honeymoon, the wife said the woman from the alleged June 2025 encounter contacted her, informing her that she had "slept together" with her husband in a hotel he booked.

When confronted, her husband purportedly denied sleeping with the woman, claiming that his friend had been using his photo to "catfish girls". He added that the third party had no proof they slept together.

At the time, she believed his explanation.

Screenshots later included in the document purportedly show that the friend admitted to catfishing women and claimed responsibility for the encounter.

May 30: Husband meets woman in Taiwan

On this day, the husband reportedly met a woman at a club during a boys' trip to Taiwan.

According to the PDF, he approached her, got her number and began communicating with her after the trip. He also introduced himself to her as "Ben".

Meanwhile, screenshots show him continuing to chat normally with his wife on May 31, with the PDF stating that "nothing seem[ed] to be amiss".

July 30 to Aug 2: Pays for woman's trip to Kuala Lumpur

The PDF claims the husband subsequently arranged and paid for the Taiwan woman's trip to Kuala Lumpur, while telling his wife he was going on a boys' gambling trip to Genting.

It alleges that the pair slept together during that trip.

The document also claims the woman still did not know his real identity and that he had lied about details including his name, birthday, age and school.

Aug 5 to 8: 'Work trip' to Taiwan

Days later, the husband purportedly returned to Taiwan under the guise of a work trip.

According to the PDF, the woman was there, and he attempted to arrange to meet her, including for lunch.

During the trip, she found out the truth about the man's identity.

Messages included in the document later show "Ben" apologising to the woman for lying about his personal details.

Screenshots also show the woman thanking him for sending her flowers and coffee.

Aug 28: Man asks for an annulment over text

The wife said she received a message from her husband on Aug 28 saying he wanted to annul their marriage.

According to the screenshot, he wrote that since they had "not consummated our marriage", an annulment might be possible and would allow them to avoid waiting three years for a divorce.

The message came after an argument the previous day, during which he told her: "I think at this point, you should just go find someone else who can handle your temper tantrums. Because I don't think I can."

A screenshot apparently from the husband showed he suggested to annul the marriage.

He later told her: "You're right. I guess we're both tired and I honestly don't see how things can be fixed at this point. Let's move on with our lives and hopefully you'll be able to find someone better who will treat you right."

The wife said she was "taken aback" that he had raised the annulment over text.

Aug 29: Wife's father confronts husband over suspected third party

The document also shows the wife's father confronting the husband on Aug 29 over suspicions that there was a third party.

The husband denied it at the time, telling him in a text: "There is no third party."

Sept 1: Husband gives 4 reasons for ending marriage

Several days later, he purportedly sent another message listing reasons for wanting to end the marriage.

These included recurring arguments, feeling that life had become harder since they married, separation being repeatedly raised during fights, and a lack of physical intimacy.

"Since we got married, I have repeatedly tried to initiate sex with you, but my attempts have repeatedly been rejected and we have not consummated our marriage," the text read.

Although he said he respected her "right to say no", he described the lack of intimacy as an ongoing issue that had contributed to him feeling "unwanted and disconnected".

The PDF also contains messages purportedly showing the husband trying to salvage his relationship with the woman from Taiwan.

In one exchange, he allegedly discussed the possibility of moving overseas, including seeking permission to work from France and continuing to see her.

Sept 7: Wife discovers the group chat

Describing it as "the day the receipts exploded", the wife said she discovered a private Instagram group chat involving her husband and several of his friends.

The document contains dozens of screenshots from the chat discussing women, relationships and the Taiwan woman.

In one exchange, the husband allegedly wrote: "Settle marriage first then talk about ldr," referring to a long-distance relationship.

Another screenshot purportedly shows him saying that his wife was not part of his "roster" and that the Taiwan woman was the only person in it.

The document ends off asking readers to "look at the evidence, and make your own judgement about what is right, what is wrong, and who crossed the line".

Stomp has reached out to the wife for more information.

This article was first published in Stomp . Permission required for reproduction.

文件称，该男子在婚姻期间结识了一名台湾女子，并支付了她前往吉隆坡的旅费。

一份长达 100 页的 PDF 文件在网上流传，其中包含大量截图、照片和聊天记录，指控一名新加坡丈夫在婚前婚后出轨。

其中一项指控是：该男子据称在结婚前有过一夜情，婚后又追求在台湾认识的另一名女子，最终告诉妻子他想申请婚姻无效，部分原因是妻子多次拒绝他的性要求。

这份文件似乎是由妻子整理的，她在免责声明中表示，该文件是根据她发现的情况、她听到的情况以及她设法收集到的“收据”编写的。

分享该 PDF 的 TikTok 帖子似乎已被删除，但该事件在 SgTea 子版块重新发布后，人们的兴趣依然不减。

10 月 5 日，一个 Instagram 账号也以两部分帖子的形式分享了该文件的摘要，该帖子迅速走红。

2025年6月28日：婚前一夜情指控

根据 PDF 文件，一名女子后来联系了妻子，声称她于 2025 年 6 月 28 日在一家酒店与该男子发生了性关系。

她说他自称“本”，他们通过 Instagram 联系过。

该 PDF 文件包含妻子提供的证据截图，证明该男子一直在使用化名。

据称，这次偶遇发生在两人结婚前大约九个月。

2026年3月21日：这对新人结婚

这对夫妇于3月21日结婚。

“在我的婚礼当天，我们像往常一样举行了婚礼，而我却完全不知道我的丈夫已经和其他女孩发生过性关系了，”妻子在PDF文件中写道。

照片显示这对新人身着结婚礼服，站在汉字“囍”前。

4月1日：妻子得知丈夫早前的出轨指控

蜜月的第一天，妻子说，据称在 2025 年 6 月与她发生关系的女子联系了她，告诉她，她曾在她丈夫预订的酒店里与他“睡在一起”。

面对质问，她的丈夫否认与该女子发生过性关系，声称他的朋友盗用了他的照片去“骗女孩”。他还补充说，第三方没有任何证据证明他们发生过性关系。

当时，她相信了他的解释。

文件中后来附上的截图据称显示，这位朋友承认自己曾冒充女性与人发生性关系，并声称对此事负责。

5月30日：丈夫在台湾邂逅女子

据报道，当天，丈夫在与朋友们去台湾旅行期间，在一家俱乐部结识了一名女子。

根据这份PDF文件，他主动接近她，要到了她的电话号码，并在旅行结束后开始与她联系。他还向她自我介绍说他叫“本”。

与此同时，截图显示，5 月 31 日他继续与妻子正常聊天，PDF 文件称“一切似乎都很正常”。

7月30日至8月2日：支付一名女子前往吉隆坡的旅行费用

该 PDF 文件声称，丈夫随后安排并支付了这名台湾女子前往吉隆坡的行程，同时告诉妻子他要和朋友们去云顶赌博。

报道称，两人在那次旅行中发生了性关系。

该文件还声称，这名女子仍然不知道他的真实身份，而且他在姓名、生日、年龄和学校等细节上都撒了谎。

8月5日至8日：赴台湾“出差”

几天后，丈夫以出差为由返回台湾。

根据 PDF 文件显示，这名女子当时在场，他试图安排与她见面，包括共进午餐。

在旅途中，她发现了这个男人的真实身份。

文件中包含的信息后来显示，“本”向该女子道歉，因为他谎报了自己的个人信息。

截图还显示，这名女子感谢他送她鲜花和咖啡。

8月28日：男子通过短信要求婚姻无效

妻子说，8月28日她收到丈夫发来的信息，说他想解除婚姻关系。

根据截图显示，他写道，由于他们“尚未圆房”，因此有可能申请婚姻无效，这样他们就无需等待三年才能离婚。

这条信息是在前一天两人争吵之后发来的，当时他告诉她：“我觉得你现在应该去找个能忍受你坏脾气的人。因为我觉得我受不了。”

一张疑似丈夫提供的截图显示，他曾提议解除婚姻关系。

他后来告诉她：“你说得对。我想我们都累了，说实话，我觉得现在的情况已经无法挽回了。我们还是继续各自的生活吧，希望你能找到一个更好的人，一个会好好待你的人。”

妻子说，她对丈夫通过短信提出婚姻无效的请求感到“震惊”。

8月29日：妻子父亲就疑似第三者质问丈夫

文件还显示，8 月 29 日，妻子的父亲因怀疑有第三者而与丈夫对质。

当时丈夫否认了此事，并在短信中告诉他：“没有第三者。”

9月1日：丈夫列举4个结束婚姻的理由

几天后，他据称又发了一条信息，列举了想要结束这段婚姻的理由。

这些问题包括反复争吵、感觉婚后生活变得更加艰难、在争吵中反复提及分居以及缺乏身体上的亲密关系。

短信中写道：“自从我们结婚以来，我多次尝试与你发生性关系，但我的尝试一次又一次地被你拒绝，我们还没有圆房。”

虽然他说他尊重她“说不的权利”，但他表示缺乏亲密关系是一个持续存在的问题，导致他感到“不被需要和与他人疏远”。

该 PDF 文件还包含一些信息，据称显示丈夫试图挽救他与这位台湾女子的关系。

据称，在一次交流中，他讨论了移居海外的可能性，包括寻求在法国工作的许可并继续与她见面。

9月7日：妻子发现了群聊

妻子形容那天是“真相大白的一天”，她说她发现了一个私人 Instagram 群聊，其中有她的丈夫和他的几个朋友。

该文件包含数十张聊天截图，内容涉及女性、人际关系和台湾女性。

据称，在一次交流中，丈夫写道：“先把结婚的事定下来，再谈异地恋”，指的是长期异地恋。

另一张截图显示，他声称他的妻子不在他的“名单”上，而台湾女子是名单上唯一的人。

该文件最后要求读者“查看证据，并自行判断什么是对的，什么是错的，以及谁越界了”。

Stomp已联系该女子以获取更多信息。

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